This quote from very funny, newlywed fashion blogger Man Repeller perfectly sums up exactly what I’m looking for:
“Leandra: [S]eriously, I’m married to the most understanding human on this planet. We don’t have fights about these types of things and that’s why I keep pushing him because I feel like we’re at this stage in our lives where we can be so wholly selfish without having to wonder what’s going to be because, at the end of the day, we come home to each other. It’s not like I’m working really hard on the blog and also wondering what’s going to happen to my personal life.”
From Into the Gloss.
Isn’t that EXACTLY what calm is: predictability?